Am I crazy?

crazy

The first known use of the word “crazy” was in 1566.  Two antonyms of the word crazy are realistic and reasonable.

As someone who has a mental illness, I don’t like it when people use the term loosely to describe someone else.  I often use the word to describe myself as some of the things I have done were crazy. However, I wasn’t not too acceptable when I heard the word used to describe myself or others.

I think I would much rather someone say that I have a mental illness than to say I am crazy. However, at the same time, since the stigma for mental illnesses still runs rampant, maybe I should settle for the word crazy.

I recently had a conversation with someone who has a mentally ill relative and she had told had told her kids not to use the word the word crazy because it wasn’t nice. Is the word not nice?

So, today, I decided to look the word up that is used so often to describe so many things. I wanted to know if using the word crazy to describe someone with a mental illness is accurate.

Well, they are! I could still argue that it is not a “nice word”. However, I guess I can’t blame people for using the word correctly.

Merriam-Webster defines “crazy” (pertaining to how it is being used in this blog) as:

  • mad
  • insane
  • impractical
  • unusual
  • being out of the ordinary
  • infatuated
  • obsessed
  • distracted with desire or excitement

Examples given of how to use the word are:

  1. a hospital for crazy people
  2. He’s been acting kind of crazy lately.
  3. There are a lot of crazy drivers on the streets.
  4. You are crazy to have paid so much for this car.
  5. You would be crazy not to accept their offer!
  6. What a crazy thing to do!

Well, after evaluating the word, I would have to say that I am definitely crazy. However, with this definition, I would have to argue that everyone is at least a little bit crazy! I know that everyone has at least done something that could be viewed as crazy.

I decided a long time ago that I was not going to let it bother me when someone called me crazy, especially when they didn’t know I have a mental illness. However, it still does upset me sometimes when people use the word loosely and in a way to define someone. I guess I shouldn’t as I have already stated we are all a little crazy.

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About Michelle Clark Bipolar Bandit

I am a strong advocate for the mentally ill and have been since I was first approached by a lawyer in a psychiatric facility as a teenager. He wanted me to help him fight how the mentally ill are mistreated. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder at the age of 17 after a full blown manic episode. Before that, I suffered from debilitating depression for 4 years. My goals are to help others by sharing my story and providing tips to deal with mania and depression. I often write blogs related to advocating for people like myself. I want to encourage, inspire, and educate those with #bipolar disorder and other mental illnesses and also include inspirational #quotes. I founded the group Advocates for People with Mental Illnesses and the page Mental Health Advocates United and have several social media sites that are related to bipolar disorder and/or advocacy. If you are an advocate or would like to be, I hope you join our FB group: Advocates for People with Mental Illnesses
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10 Responses to Am I crazy?

  1. I’m trying to lighten up when I hear people say crazy in reference to things that are not people. I’ll use crazy lovingly to describe myself or my friends but it’s one of those words that is only good to use towards me if I trust you and I know you’re not trying to degrade me.

  2. Raeyn says:

    I tend to offer a shit-eating grin and thank people graciously for such comments. 😀

  3. indytony says:

    Am I crazy?

    You bet.

    Crazy like a fox.

  4. Henry G says:

    Here in the UK Crazy has positive connotations – snowboarding / surfing “Crazy”. The more prevalent terms used to describe people with mental illness I have heard are :

    Nutters

    Mental/ Mentals

    Schizos (encompassing all types of mental illness)

    Psychos (as above)

    Bad enough? these were terms I heard used by trained general staff nurses and other workers whilst they thought they were out of earshot from the patient (occasionally they didn’t care). I worked as a health care worker and almost completed nurse training myself (another story). For the most part I kept my mouth shut but once when fed up with hearing a derogatory term yet again responded with “You know you’ve been working with a nut job for the past six hours?” that put a stop to the comments for one shift at least. Thanks for blogging

    H

  5. Ah yes, nations separated by a common language again! As a Brit who’s lived in the US and Australia, I am often confused by the context in which the words “crazy” and “mad” are used. I agree with Henry G that there is a fondness and even wistfulness about “crazy” in the UK and Australia, and in that context I think we would all benefit from being a little more crazy sometimes!

    And “mad” in the US tends to mean angry, whereas in the UK and Australia I would be offended to have myself and my mental illness labelled as “mad” in a similar way to Raeyn’s reaction to “crazy”.

    I often try to explain to people that there’s a distinction between “mad” and “sad”, where a lot of mental illness lingers way too long, and yet this can also have the result of trivialising things. “If you’re just sad, then get out of the doldrums,” is something I hear over and over.

    At the end of the day, in society we’re always going to have our fair share of “sad”, “mad” and “crazy” people, so let’s accept that and help each other out. Those “perfect” people are so boring!

  6. Smokey says:

    Hey crazy is who I am and it took me 30 years to accept it. I have bad days and good ones but it’s who I am and my wife of 24 yrs and my 3 children wouldn’t want me any other way. Hell yeah I’m crazy!!!!

  7. I’m on the fence about the term. But all things considered crazy is not the worst I’ve been called 🙂

  8. Nicole Lyons says:

    Great article!

    Anne Roselle wrote a wonderful essay when I featured her as one of my Mental Health Warriors back in May about how she is taking the word back and it’s brilliant. To quote her:

    “I want crazy back. I want to use the word and shout it from the rooftops. I want to talk about my crazy good time at the beach, or the crazy delicious chicken salad I had for dinner or my crazy inability to drive past a Starbucks without stopping. I want the word back for all the good memories I have associated with it and the belief that new memories of that caliber are within my reach because I take care of myself and work hard to keep my disorder in check.

    So, this May, I am claiming crazy. You can keep the rest.”

    Great article,

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